Iyanla Vanzant

Be willing to share all of who you are. So many of us want a partner, but we’re not willing to show all of us.

Iyanla Vanzant

Being in control of others takes time, energy, and attention away from the only thing you really have to deal with in life – yourself.

Iyanla Vanzant

Breathing deeply and releasing fear will help you get to where you want to be.

Iyanla Vanzant

Change doesn’t have to be hard, and healing doesn’t have to hurt. Surely by now you know that every thing happens for a reason! There is something better awaiting you on the other side of this.

Iyanla Vanzant

Clean up your messes. Examine, acknowledge and clean up the little things that create such a mess in your mind and life.

Iyanla Vanzant

Create what you want as opposed to being stuck in what you didn’t have.

Iyanla Vanzant

Do not label your feelings good or bad, right or wrong. Feel what you feel and allow it to pass.

Iyanla Vanzant

Do not measure your value and worth by external standards.

Iyanla Vanzant

Do what you love! Do it with passion! If you are never rewarded with money or recognition, you’re making a valuable contribution to yourself.

Iyanla Vanzant

Don’t get hung up on the hard times, the challenges. Tell your story by highlighting the victories. Because it’s your victories that will inspire, motivate, encourage other people to live their stories in grander ways.

Iyanla Vanzant