Iyanla Vanzant

You cannot get love from the outside until you are love on the inside.

Iyanla Vanzant

You cannot make your life move faster than it’s moving. No matter how urgent your situation may seem to be, things are going to happen when they happen, not a minute sooner. Be patient with yourself. Be patient with others. Be patient with life. Patience always pays off.

Iyanla Vanzant

You cannot talk or affirm yourself into a better experience in life until and unless you believe it is possible.

Iyanla Vanzant

You don’t get to tell people how to love you; you get to choose if you want to participate in the way they love.

Iyanla Vanzant

You have set standards for how you want to be treated and what you expect from yourself and for yourself.

Iyanla Vanzant

You have the ability to experience anything and everything good that you desire. You deserve to experience good things.

Iyanla Vanzant

You have to meet people where they are, and sometimes you have to leave them there.

Iyanla Vanzant

You know why the road curves as you’re driving along? It curves because if God showed us the distance from where we are to where we’re going, we’d think it was too far.

Iyanla Vanzant

You must be ready in mind, body, and spirit before you can make a change.

Iyanla Vanzant

You must find the strength to open the wounds, stick your hands inside, pull out the core of the pain that is holding you in your past, the memories, and make peace with them.

Iyanla Vanzant