Iyanla Vanzant

When you can tell the story and it doesn’t bring up any pain, you know it is healed.

Iyanla Vanzant

When you can’t figure out how to make sense out of nonsense, stop trying. Just keep breathing. It will become clear.

Iyanla Vanzant

When you don’t show up as who you are, people fall in love with who you’re not. Then when they find out who you are, that’s when they leave.

Iyanla Vanzant

When you feel afraid, acknowledge it. Then love yourself through it.

Iyanla Vanzant

When you have a healthy sense of worth, you value other people. You know who you are, which means you can accept others as they are.

Iyanla Vanzant

When you have something to do, life will not allow you to move forward until you do it.

Iyanla Vanzant

When you know how deep and dark your dark side is, it helps you stand a little taller in the light.

Iyanla Vanzant

When you make the decision to stop struggling, you will stop. When you stop struggling, things get better.

Iyanla Vanzant

When you remain silent about your pain, there are those who will accuse you of enjoying it.

Iyanla Vanzant

When you stand and share your story in an empowering way, your story will heal you and your story will heal somebody else.

Iyanla Vanzant