Iyanla Vanzant

What you do for your highest good, for your own well being, is going to be good for everyone else.

Iyanla Vanzant

What you tell yourself about yourself, about your life, about your limitations, you will believe.

Iyanla Vanzant

Whatever is not an expression of love is an expression of fear. Withholding love for any reason is a sign that we are crying out in fear.

Iyanla Vanzant

Whatever situation you find yourself in today, your mind put it there. Your thoughts direct the flow of activity into and out of your life.

Iyanla Vanzant

Whatever we see in others is a reflection of ourselves.

Iyanla Vanzant

Whatever you are doing that you know you must stop doing, you cannot stop doing it until you are ready.

Iyanla Vanzant

When pain and shame become familiar, we will engage in behavior that keeps us in shame and pain.

Iyanla Vanzant

When someone entrusts their heart to you they are giving you a piece of their soul. You cannot treat the soul casually. You must protect, nurture and handle it with care.

Iyanla Vanzant

When something someone says upsets you, your upset is not about the other person. Feelings are triggered from within.

Iyanla Vanzant

When there is breakdown in a relationship, you must have the hard conversation. It may not be pretty and it may not feel good. But if you are willing to listen and tell the truth, it will open up.

Iyanla Vanzant