Iyanla Vanzant

We must look up to ourselves to make it through the difficulties knowing that we can.

Iyanla Vanzant

We must value our ideas, our energy, our time and our life to a degree that we become unwilling to waste who we are.

Iyanla Vanzant

We think we have to do something to be grateful or something has to be done in order for us to be grateful, when gratitude is a state of being.

Iyanla Vanzant

We will never be free as long as we need something or someone else to give it to us.

Iyanla Vanzant

What keeps us from achieving our heart’s desires is not anything outside of us, it’s the conflict inside.

Iyanla Vanzant

What looks like a failure teaches us what not to do, what does not work. We have lessons to learn from our experiences.

Iyanla Vanzant

What we hear, do and expect in life is always based on our own personal experiences.

Iyanla Vanzant

What we must realize is that we cannot see everything. We do not know everything. More important, we must understand that it is impossible for us to control anything. The process of life is a spiritual one, governed by invisible, intangible spiritual laws and principles.

Iyanla Vanzant

What will support any relationship is clear, complete and conscious conversations when upsets or breakdowns occur.

Iyanla Vanzant

What you ask for, you get. What you see, you are. What you give, you get back, someday, somehow, sooner or later.

Iyanla Vanzant