Iyanla Vanzant

People have a right to think what they think and do what they do, and we each get to choose how we respond.

Iyanla Vanzant

People may not like what you do, people may not like how you do it, but these people are not living your life. You are!

Iyanla Vanzant

Rather than beating yourself up for what you are not doing, appreciate and celebrate the things you are doing.

Iyanla Vanzant

Remember, we are all here to learn lessons. While we are learning, we will make mistakes.

Iyanla Vanzant

Remind yourself right now that no matter what your life looks like, you are doing the best you can. And getting better.

Iyanla Vanzant

Self-affirming words and actions are necessary to counteract the unpleasant things we have said about ourselves.

Iyanla Vanzant

Sharing what you’ve learned and helping others is a good source of renewal.

Iyanla Vanzant

So many of us invest a fortune making ourselves look good to the world, yet inside we are falling apart. It’s time to invest on the inside.

Iyanla Vanzant

Some children do what they’re told to do; some children do what they’re told not to do; all children do what they’re parents have done.

Iyanla Vanzant

Sooner or later, we must all accept the fact that in a relationship, the only person you are dealing with is yourself.

Iyanla Vanzant